Either way, it's not terrible, at least by the standards of the rest of the not-very-good show around her.
That's not entirely her fault as a character, though; Peter deciding not to tell her his identity at the end of the first movie is an almost inexplicable choice given their history, and without that knowledge, his flakiness is downright infuriating.
So when an Asian or Black dude gets with a white woman it's like they are getting back at the generational trauma that white men perpetrated - or maybe a more psychologically correct way of saying this is they find validation in being desired.