It will get better and easier as time passes.
Hang in here, and allow yourself to find happiness wherever it may come.
My thoughts are with you! Wish all the best for everyone!! Nonetheless, your thoughts on marriage contributed a lot, and you had a long successful marriage while it lasted.
What also happened is that we had to put away parts of who we are to find time and energy for our children, which we are willing to do as parents.
Sharing the story of your separation and pending divorce is important, as will be the topics you plan to write about as you experience them.
She didn't know they were having trouble.