He will choose pleasant music, arrange aroma candles, create such an atmosphere so that nothing and no one distracts the guest from the pleasure.
As long as you're open-minded and communicate exactly what you're looking for, sexual identity does not have to be a factor in choosing masage.
It helps me on a deeper level than sexual release.
I feel more comfortable every minute.
My first time I was nervous too but it opened up a new world for me spiritually.