I like watching gay porn and checking out guys as a way to stay in touch with my attractions to men while staying faithful.
And before someone says I'm defending lying or deceit, I'm not, but you can have a healthy love and partnership even if you do sex work lol.
Maybe its early on enough where she wouldn't mind doing it again for money before it gets serious.
And it's not hypocritical, unless she also told him she doesn't want him to look at that kinda stuff and he lied and did it anyway like her.
Maybe because he doesn't want her to be viewed, how he views other sex workers.
Also everytime I ever felt inadequate my husband made me feel like there wasn't anything to feel that way about.